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Why Sharing One Lawyer Can Be The Kindest Way To Divorce
Kindness is not a word many people associate with divorce. Many couples experiencing a relationship breakdown believe it is a bitter, tragic process. At Waterstone Legal we are here to challenge legal assumptions. Supporting clients to divorce as amicably and compassionately as possible is at the heart of our approach, making us one of the best family law firms in London. One decision that can help facilitate the process of a kind divorce is to share one lawyer. Here we debunk the common misconception about how this can favour one spouse and explain the benefits of making this choice.
Why Do Many Couples Use Separate Lawyers For Divorce?
The most common reason many couples choose to use separate lawyers is the myth that sharing a lawyer will unfavourably bias one spouse during the process. This is simply not true. The traditional approach to divorce can actually instigate more aggression, arguments and distance between the parties making the process take longer and the emotional toll being far more intense than choosing the ‘One couple, one lawyer’ approach. While every relationship breakdown is different and requires a bespoke, tailored service, our expert family solicitors often find sharing one lawyer to be the most strategic decision for an amicable divorce. From the outset it encourages approaching the separation together on the same page and making it a collaborative process.
4 Benefits of Using One Divorce Lawyer For Your Case
There are many heartfelt benefits of using one London family lawyer to handle the divorce from start to finish. Here we breakdown the key ways this decision can be the vehicle to the best outcome for both spouses.
- Money, Honey
One of the biggest considerations in any divorce is how much it will cost. There is an assumption that divorce can be a lengthy and expensive process and this can often be caused by the way it is approached. As one of the best family law firms in London, we aim to keep divorce as cost-effective and straight-forward as possible. Choosing to have one of our expert divorce solicitors to represent both spouses can reduce your legal fees and the necessity of duplicating services.
2. Stream-Lined Separation
Having one lawyer represent both spouses removes the need for back and forth between two different lawyers or law firms. This can significantly speed up the process, saving money, time and streamlining the separation. If you have made the decision to divorce together, instructing the same solicitor can help manage communication and reduce the confusion and complexity of the process. Time is often of the essence once a decision to separate has been made. If a quick divorce is a priority for you, speak to a family law firm near you or book a consultation here to find out how one divorce expert can support you through the process.
3. Cooperation Over Conflict
Choosing to opt for the ‘One couple, one lawyer’ approach over the traditional adversarial method encourages cooperation over conflict. This can dramatically reduce the conflict and emotional stress that is often involved with divorce. If you have children, minimising conflict is essential to support and focus on them through the process and achieve the most amicable outcome for everyone.
4. Balanced Outcome
A compassionate family lawyer like the experts at Waterstone Legal will want to achieve the most balanced, fair outcome for their clients. Having one lawyer support both sides of a divorce can help achieve the most balanced result ensuring both parties are clear and on the same page going forward. Your lawyer will be doing all they can to make sure they balance both parties’ expectations, needs and desires and foster a positive relationship throughout the separation.
The Wrap Up
Going through a divorce can be one of the most emotional and challenging experiences of a lifetime. It is often approached with a ‘prepare for battle’ approach that is intensified by the traditional adversarial system. With amicable divorces being more and more of a priority for spouses opting to choose one lawyer to represent both sides can be the best option. One lawyer can help streamline the process, saving money and encouraging a cooperative approach. If children are involved it can help protect their interests, your lawyer will be focused on achieving a fair and balanced outcome for both parties giving you more time to focus on their and your own emotional needs. This can reduce stress and create a better relationship throughout the separation and going forward. If you would like to book a confidential consultation with one of our divorce experts you can do so below.
At Waterstone Legal we are here to support you in the best way possible wherever you are at in your divorce journey.
